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Executive Presence Is Mostly B*****ks

When I first started working in communication skills about 25 years ago, imposter syndrome was running rampant in my head.

An HR Director would say, “We’ve got some brilliant senior leaders, but we need them to have more executive presence.”

And I’d nod knowingly, despite the fact that I had absolutely no idea what executive presence was. In those days, I wasn’t entirely sure what an executive was.

Why Play Produces Better Ideas Than Pressure.

The surprising link between creativity, productivity... and having a laugh.

When Charlie Curson and I run our creativity workshops, we start with a bit of a ridiculous exercise.

We ask people to turn each other into statues – in just 20 seconds.

First, they have to create a really boring statue and give it a title e.g. “Plank of Wood in the Garden.” Then they create a silly statue e.g. “glamorous duck trampolining.”

How to Add Three Years to Your Life (Without Really Trying)

If I could genuinely add three years to your life, would you read the next 700 words?

Of course you would. And that’s the power of So What.

One of the things I goon about in my presentation workshops is that before you think about confidence, storytelling, slides or body language, you need to answer one simple question:

So what?

Why should your audience care? What’s in it for them?

To Lectern or Not to Lectern?

To Lectern or Not to Lectern?

Was this a tale of two lecterns?

First came Keir Starmer doing gravitas: the leader, the decent man, falling on his sword before heading off to see the King. Then came Andy Burnham doing almost exactly the same thing... but without a lectern and obviously with a more positive vibe.

The Problem with Business Class

I was flying over to the US recently – very nice and all that, in one of those pods, watching a film called Rental Family; which, is excellent and all about connection.

And as I was watching it, I found myself looking around at all the other pods. Everyone tucked away in their own little space, headphones on, screens on, isolated. And yes the stewards were lovely and attentive, trying to create rapport, but the problem was that we are completely disconnected. I was in truth… (handkerchiefs out please) slightly lonely, if I’m honest.

Successful Boardroom presentations? The dullest answer in communication… it depends

 

There’s a lot of advice about boardroom presentations.

Don’t tell stories.
Do present with gravitas.
Get to the point.
Make it interactive.
Don’t make it interactive.
Remember, it’s not a TED Talk.

In my experience, the truth is rather less exciting:

It depends.

IT - DEPENDS - ON - THE - BOARD.

Using Improv Skills – Answering Those Difficult Questions

For many presenters, the fear isn’t the presentation, it’s what happens when someone interrupts or asks a tough question.

Ironically, that’s the moment we’re closest to our natural state: having a conversation.

So rather than fearing it, we can borrow from a group of people who deal with awkward audiences all the time, comedians.

8 Tips for Handling Difficult Questions (Senior Leaders)

I once worked with a senior leader at a bank who, without question, was the best presenter in the organisation. That mattered, because the board were notoriously tough. Many of the C-suite dreaded presenting to them, particularly the Q&A.

Before one big session, he said something that completely reframed it for me:
“I see their questions as an opportunity.”

He broke it down into three possibilities.

First, a tough question often means they haven’t fully understood, so it’s an opportunity to explain more clearly.